Tag: Jesus

What A Difference a Day Makes

July 2026

Fifty years ago, I was born to a couple in the far north part of the United States. They had taken a position in a church, and I was their first child. I would be a girl, the oldest daughter, and the oldest granddaughter. Word on the street says that is a difficult combination; actually, some people that know me would agree with that. Not only am I a firstborn, which tend to have the wonderful characteristics of a born leader, reliable, perfectionistic, and organized; I only had brothers and only have sons. So those characteristics lean more towards bossy, selfish, and black and white, no gray. Also, emotions are suppressed without a sister or daughter to keep me well rounded. Have sons and brothers? You understand. My husband who is second born has helped me see more to life than the one-track mind I tend to stay on. Unfortunately, I was diagnosed in a pretty crucial time of mental development. Survival mode was the only option, mainly mental survival mode. Physical survival was up to God.

Reflections have been the name of the game on this blog, but life reflections have topped the chart in the last few weeks. Once a person has hit the age of fifty, there is not as many years left as have lived. What a time of reflection on how life has gone for us. Have we done a good job financially, getting ready for retirement? How are our kiddos doing as they hit adulthood? We cannot really change anything, but we can help them navigate their steps as they make life changing decisions, like starting on retirement savings. At their age, my decisions put me on the path that I have traveled, and if I had made a different decision at that time, my life would look way different. God has brought me through those decisions and put me on a path of ministering to others in His work.

Other questions. Did I tell enough people about the Lord? Surprising how many people do not know about His saving grace and His forever life with Him in Heaven. Was I willing to invite others to visit with us at church to hear that message? How many more people did I let pass? In the same space, was I an example of love, of grace? I failed many times, got back up and asked forgiveness, but hoping God could use me daily to show grace. Galatians 5:22, 23 gives each Christian the blueprint of Christian living. We hear it over and over and over again and I feel at times we let it go in on ear and out the other. Yet it really is a reflective aspect that should be on repeat. “But the fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance…” Do I have joy in my life? Many times, I feel like joy is a choice. Our surroundings affect our life and joy but how we choose to respond to them, can be crucial. Choose Joy? Yes, grief if needed but choose to see God in the areas of grief and ask for God’s help. Those around us are there for that help as well. The Bible tell us in Romans 12:15, “Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.”

Peace. Let that settle in. Breathe. In through the nose out through the mouth. It is interesting that when I want to settle things down in my life, I use the same actions I will take when I am in pain, in discomfort. It is a mechanism that brings the situation at hand into focus. Where are we at in our peace? We may say that peace alludes us, but we have to make our own peace. Young moms with little kids, multiple sporting events for older ones, and activity night after night. Find peace, make peace. Breathe until the peace comes and make the peace come.

After peace in the verse above is longsuffering. This is patience when the peace is allusive, this is patience when our surroundings are complicated and difficult either of our doing or others. If it is others, what are we doing to make those relationships better? Do we have relationships that are meaningful, that are supportive, and that build us up in a world that can tear us down and be discouraging. I am grateful more than my friends can know of each of their friendships. They are uplifting and put me in a place of comfort and love. Each one is unique and is an amount of stability in my life brought to me at different points or for different aspects.

Our God has done this for us. He has given us a free will with stipulation as Christians. We choose our path for the most part, our attitude, our joy, our peace, oh, and do not forget the longsuffering… He is there for the directions and makes the path open for viewing and to walk down, or closed for the time being, or to wait. Grateful for the path, the journey and the choice. What a difference MY day made Looking forward to the reflection of the past and the direction of the future.

Christmas Time Is Here Again

December 2024

I Love Christmas time. I actually love Thanksgiving more because I do not feel as overwhelmed. There is cleaning the house and putting together the most scrumptious lunch and goodies. Where with Christmas, it is scheduling a picture taking session, then ordering the cards with all intentions of a clear photo and changing the name on the card to your name. Then after that stressful project, making sure presents are bought for family and friends, getting them wrapped, going to parties and choir cantatas, and then cleaning the house. Sometimes we head to a family member’s home in another state which involves tying up an extreme number of loose ends just to leave, on top of the regular Christmas events.

It is beyond important to take a look at the list of items to do, the list of projects done, and the list of chores and then turn on the Christmas music and dwell on the reason for the season. Have we thought about that part yet? Well, the reason for the hustle and bustle is going to be here shortly and the dwelling on the spirit of Christmas should not be left until then. In fact, it should be in every aspect of our daily lives year round. Why are we shopping endlessly for the right present for the right person? Why are we going to the event? Why celebrate? Because it is Jesus, Jesus, Jesus. As Christians, it is the only reason we should do these things. He is who we are celebrating; He is who we are honoring with our gifts to others, the message that is sung, and our connections at the parties. He has given us these opportunities.

Jesus Christ, the Son of God, the Creator of all, was sent to earth as a baby. Christmas is the celebration of His birth. But the story is the most important. Why did He come? God created man in His image and to be ruler of His creation, but man sinned against God by being deceived of the devil. Sin entered into the world, so God sent His Son to take the sin of the world on Him by dying on the cross. Jesus is that bridge from this sinful world to God. Through belief that we are sinners, that Jesus died for those sins, and accepting those things and asking Him to be our Savior and bridge to God, we can spend eternity with God upon our death. The recognition of these truth from the Bible makes Christmas a part of the celebration of Christianity that should be so very meaningful. Let us make it meaningful this year.

One of the ways we can make it meaningful is to see the events in a different light. Did they come around as only a gathering time of food and fellowship? Maybe. But if we look at what the Bible says about when Jesus was born, others gathered together to celebrate His birth. Luke 2:1-19, gives the Christmas story that every choir cantata and musical at Christmastime repeats. Jesus was born and the angels came to the shepherds to tell them.

Luke 2:8-12 say, “And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night. And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shown round about them: and they were sore afraid. And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord. And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.” The shepherds went looking for Jesus and found Him and His family in a stable. That gathering together to worship and celebrate the Saviour of the world, Extraordinary! Can you imagine that type of concert from the angels and the gathering in the stable? Lowly and meek, God-honoring and worshipful.

Along with the gatherings, I love giving gifts and making it the right gift. If we read in Matthew 2, wise men came from the east looking for the King of the Jews, following the star. They presented him with gifts which were very expensive gifts and an act of their worship. These gifts are an example of our gifts to God. Our lives and dedication to telling others about Jesus should be our main gift to Him. He asks us at the end of the Gospel of Matthew to tell everyone about Him and His gift of Jesus whom He sent to us. Jesus is that ultimate gift we can give to others, and especially this time of year when the emphasis of Christmas is all around us. How are we going to do that this year? Are we willing to share Jesus with those we come in contact within the next week. Grocery stores, gas stations, restaurants; we may be the only Christian someone has ever met or will meet this year. This gift of Jesus to someone without Jesus will change their lives forever.

Each year, we spend time as a family concentrating on giving God a new gift for the new year. I have tried to give Him more of my time, my thoughts, my service. And at the end of the year, I reflect on how that went for me. I have seen some amazing things happen with those gifts. I can honestly say God has taken care of me, will take care of me, and everything that is done in my life is for a reason, and I try, try, try to remember that constantly. The last few months have been evidenced again of how much He has taken care of every need. God has worked in some pretty amazing ways, and there are more to come. I have spent this year in quite a bit of physical pain, and yet, I feel healthy and strong. If the pain, were to go away would I be able to see God in my life less? Maybe so. But of course, I would rather not hurt. That gift of no pain might actually make me complacent in my daily life, sitting back and not focusing on those that are in some real debilitating pain. At least I can get out of bed every day and do my tasks. Many others may not.

Gifts and gatherings and family are Christmas, but Jesus needs to be Christmas. Today, let us look at this day as the one God has made for us and give Him our time, thoughts, and us. Celebrate Jesus as Christmas time is here again.